I know this is really tough on you. My cousin is going through the same thing. His wife had an affair. She Left for 9 months. Came back for 4 months. Then left again. She has been gone for 4 months and now she comes back crying and beggin. I should have never left you.
Hell, my wife wanted me to kill her to put her out of her misery. She wanted a divorce. Wanted to leave, but was afraid I was going to kill her. She didn't want me to know where she was because she thought I was going to stalk her.
Funny part is, my wife cousin of cheater are 1st cousins.
Him and I talk all day on googlechat. Sometimes it helps, but we talk about the same crap all the time. We rehash alot. We say there is nothing we can do about it.
Really do we want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with us?