Thanks you can be my CHeerleaders anytime. I would do the same for you too. It was really a wonderful session and I still a few days later feel renewed hope.
CL, I was reading in your post about the book that you were reading before and it sounds interesting. I hope that sharing the information from Jodi at DB that it might help someone else to be able to better DB. I thought I was doing everything but, Appaently there was more I could do jusst tool a proffesional to point it out in a way that I could make work I guess.
Thanks to all of you. The support means so much and is so helpful l.
There is still such a long ways to go but, after onw weekend I can already see it working. I have been a positive person to him and still distanced enough and am working on me my body and my mind. I have also tried some other stuff Jodi mentioned and that went really well but, I won't go into that as it's kida personal
Talk later hope everyone is well.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Yay Jak!! Glad to hear some positive news. And that PMA is contagious, for sure.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
we can do it. It has been such a looooog road. the interchange is just ahead. going to go one way or another but at least I will know where I am headed FINELY....RIght now the waiting part is the hardest. I think people may have mis understood me when I said I was numb. It feels like a dream. Like did I really send the money to retro? I have been talking about it for so long. I think I called MY bluff. I am on automatic right now. I am going away with my son for a week and instead of getting excited about it I started 'wondering" what wife is goig to do and with Who when I am gone. I know don't worry about the things you have no control over....Soooo you are doing some "personal" stuff huh....
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Thanks every one. Wish I could say that everything will work out as there is still a long way to go I feel but I feel I am headed in the right direction for me now. Hopefully H will pick up and the sign so far is that he may be doing just that. Time will tell.
H,
We will get through this. Yes Im'e going to say that We can not control them but, I pretty certain you don't have to worry about W. I see so many positives in your posts from her and you need to think about them and focus forward. I know what you mean about the numbness.
Nik, Yoyo, Matilda, and LWB, Thank You for the positive vibes you sent my way, they help me so much, especially coming from such strong women.
Cl,
Your awesome too.
Have a good day everyone.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
