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Re: Bookends qoe100 #1458027 05/26/08 04:40 PM
Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,910 Northern California Survival_Goddess OP Member
OP Survival_Goddess Member Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,910 Northern California	Hi Queenie, Thanks for the well wishes and the visit! Things are moving along nicely w/ CG I think. We had a date yesterday. He came over w/flowers for me! We walked over to a bbq that some friends of mine were having. They are an older couple...in their 70's and we were easily the youngest people there! It was fun, CG was tolerant of my senior friends. We talked last night (briefly) about his "problem" with "emotional closeness"... I would have liked to have discussed this more, but I just said that I personally found therapy valuable. He also said that we should eventually get the dogs together. He has 2, one of them is a known fighter, a pit bull/whippet rescue that is a wonderful dog, but she is territorial. I suggested we take them on a walk together in neutral territory. I am not willing to put my sweet Argo in danger but I do think that controlled introductions will work. It really could be good because his dog is about the same size/energy/intelligence as mine and I think they could be good friends once the initial stage of "getting to know" is over. Throughout the evening he made references to things we should do in the future...He will show me his old house that he built, I will meet so and so, he will enroll his daughter in a class I might teach this summer. It is fun getting to know someone! SG Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker

Re: Bookends fig #1458030 05/26/08 04:42 PM
Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,910 Northern California Survival_Goddess OP Member
OP Survival_Goddess Member Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,910 Northern California	Thanks Figgie! I wish the Doc just hadn't said anything! It would have been better to have a conversation rather than no conversation and knowing he knows the results. I will post as soon as I know. xoxo SG Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker

Re: Bookends Survival_Goddess #1458038 05/26/08 04:52 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	i hate the not knowing it makes me gnaw off my hands!!! blech

Re: Bookends fig #1458125 05/26/08 07:30 PM
Joined: Jul 2000 Posts: 4,511 SoCal Committed2Him Member
Committed2Him Member Joined: Jul 2000 Posts: 4,511 SoCal	SG and CG... hmmm if you guys ever hook up for good, you won't have to change your last initials Happy to seeyou excited about the gettinng to know each other process. It IS fun and he sounds like he IS working on the emotional closeness. Good for him. Good things are coming the way of so many around here, let's just assume the same is going to be true for you in your R and with your Health $\:\)$ Committed2Him- "C2H" All Things (Back from Spain!)...18

Benign! Survival_Goddess #1459036 05/27/08 07:10 PM
Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,910 Northern California Survival_Goddess OP Member
OP Survival_Goddess Member Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,910 Northern California	Best possible news! Thanks everyone! Now another mammogram in 6 months. I do think all this testing and looking is causing more harm than good in my case... The doc says my "busy breasts" should settle down once I am over menopause. Thanks again for the prayers and good wishes. SG Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker

Re: Benign! Survival_Goddess #1459056 05/27/08 07:17 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	oh yay!!!! congratulations SG!!!! (damn menopause)

Re: Benign! fig #1459065 05/27/08 07:20 PM
Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,910 Northern California Survival_Goddess OP Member
OP Survival_Goddess Member Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,910 Northern California	Thanks Ms. Fig! SG Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker

Re: Benign! Survival_Goddess #1459075 05/27/08 07:23 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	hey at least your breasts are busy!!!! $;\)$

Re: Benign! fig #1459093 05/27/08 07:42 PM
Joined: Jun 2002 Posts: 9,929 Illinois BethM Member
BethM Member Joined: Jun 2002 Posts: 9,929 Illinois	Hey Goddess, Great news! Hopefully now you can sit back and enjoy your summer and your time with CG. Quote: at least your breasts are busy!!!! $;\)$ Yeah mine don't want to do anything! Love, Bethie

Re: Benign! BethM #1459165 05/27/08 08:23 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal K KarenMarieS Member
KarenMarieS Member K Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal	OH I am so glad SG!! I have been checking in on you! and wohhhooo about CG, the man likes you girl!! flowers!!! Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life

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