One love/One life/When it's one need/In the night

[MichelleLT]

The problem is...very few of the things he is doing to find some excitement appeal to me in any way shape or form. I'm up for going out with friends and all, but drinking 4 nights a week? Making out with random people in a bar? Those things aren't healthy for a R/M. His idea of spicing things up doesn't involve me right now.

But even if it did, I'm at a loss for what to do. The things we used to do don't seem to be enough for him now. Plus I'm specifically excluded from them. No camping, he won't take me shooting - still hasn't actually let me shoot his M14 which was his promise to me for my birthday 19 months ago.

And he's been so passive aggressive about telling me when he is bored or when anything is wrong anyways.

I guess in our case, our M became too school driven. Between work and school we were rarely home for more than an hour or two together, plus sleep. But separating didn't exactly fix that lol.