The problem with the adrenaline junkie part is that I don't know how to fill that. After 7 years I think certain parts of any R get a little routine. If he needs to be out drinking and flirting all the time to make himself feel like life is less dull, I don't know how to provide that for him at home.
Every R gets routine and its up to both people to keep the spark alive. I tell my H all the time that there is no "Entertainment Director" at our house and if your bored then WE need to make an effort as a couple to find a way to cure that or find something to do. Its not your job to entertain him anymore than it is his to entertain you. There has to be a happy medium where you find common things that keep the R going.
My M became too kid driven. My H was always working out of town and I had to take care of everything at home and so we just drifted apart instead of finding common things to hold us together.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
