DH dropped the bomb about not loving me, and wanting a divorce 6 weeks ago. For that time we have been in the same house (in seperate beds) trying to be in the house together for the kids, but in that time he has not wavered ONCE about wanting to try or change anything. I've suggested EVERYTHING I possible can, but he is completely DEAD to everything.

I'm now wanting to do the LRT, and am asking him tonight to move out this coming weekend. It's just been excruiciating on me as I still love him. It's painful, and I've lost all focus on everythign in my life with him here.

So as anyone here been the one WANTING the marriage to work, and asked the spouse wanting the divorce to leave. Any success stories with that?

Chris


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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!