Sorry to hear you were sick. I know it is hard to do things like that without your H, especially in the beginning. It does get easier with time.
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Against EVERYTHING you all said, I left a letter. He said he did read it several times while I was gone, but it didn't do anything (of course).
I suspected you would leave the letter, most of the time when we get something in our minds then there is no stopping us. But, the good thing is that you saw that it didn't work, so now you can refrain from doing it again. You can't keep doing the same thing and expect different results.
Are you asking him to move out to get a reaction out of him or because that is what you need? I have said it many times before that if my H and I hadn't separated when we did, we would probably be D now. I couldn't detach, I couldn't leave him alone, I was obsessed with making him see things my way. With that said, make sure you are asking him to leave because it is what YOU need and not to get a reaction out of him.
I don't have kids, but maybe others can chime in on how they have handled separations.
I think I asked this before but I don't remember you answering. Is there any reason to believe he is having an affair?
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I'm going to try to get into the mindset of GAL and doing things for ME again.
That is great. What kind of things are you going to do for YOU??
