I don't have anything to lose at this point. And I am not truly happy.
If that's the case, then why not make a stand?
"Hopefully" . . . "when the dust settles" . . . these are the words of passive dreamers. I suggest you put together a Plan, and then WORK that plan, DMP. And the first step of that Plan should be to sit down with your wife and tell her you've changed your mind about her dating other people, and that you want to fight for your marriage.
I'll leave you alone now. I am truly sorry for your pain.
