I originally thought W was going throught MLC - who knows, who cares - I just want her to leave, and get on a set schedule with me and the kids.
Everytime I see her walk out the door, I hurt and I want that to stop. I'm going to have to set boundries, If she doesn't like it our only other option is D and let the L work out custody. She doesn't want custody becasue it defeats the purpose of her moving out, the situation of being a mom with 4 kids.
I know she is doing everything she can to stop the aging process and look younger, she has turned into a heath nut, but because she thinks she looks better tan, she has been going to a tanning spa, all winter.
FYI, I have been kissing her more, last night before bed (she still sleeps on the couch) and this morning before I left for work, she is right there, we watched a movie last night and she sat right next to me, and this morning she followed me to the front door.
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 no sex yet ?? let me hope !!! W moving out June 1st - 5 days