She said a while back that she has been finding out who she was over the last 3 years, and a W with 4 kids isn'who she is, or was cut out to be (official reason why she is leaving) we have talked about her becomming a Landscape Architect, a Personal Trainer, etc. (before I knew she had OM and was moving out), I told her once the kids were in school, she could do whatever she wanted and I would support her. Now when she has found herself, she is going to work in a bar ??? what happened to becomming Personal Trainer, Etc. ??? why not look for a job in a field related to what you want to do ???
I think your W sounds a bit like my H and other WAS around here. Not wanting responsibility, wanting to be single, not making good choices in their life. I think my H is in MLC and maybe your W too? I hope in time no matter what happens with my M that my H will eventually start acting more normal and less like a teenager. Logical thinking seems to go out the window right now for them...Karen
