You both agreed to allow each other to see other people while you were separated. Why is this a problem?
I've continually suggested to you that you sit down with your wife and tell her you've changed your mind, that you are emphatically NOT okay with her dating other people while she is still married to you. You've basically said that you're afraid to. Until you get the courage to do that, you're going to face a series of these situations, I'm afraid.
