W is now out

[upside_downer]

Hi,

It's kind of feeling like you feel like you need to be committed to the plans because it was agreed that it would be tentative on her side.

But is that healthy for you to stay committed on your end definitely for plans that she may or may not say yes to? It leaves you waiting around for her sign.
Tink

I hadn't thought of it that way. I guess I perceived it as rude to break plans.