No that is not too harsh. My W is admittedly self centered but then can be very giving. It is really kind of hard to explain she tends to take, take, thake and then give a whole bunch. Probably the biggest thing I am getting is a companion that I can confide in and who shares the same love for our children. I do admit that I do tend to give more than I take which I think might be something good that comes out of this S. I think we are both starting to realize what the other brought to the table that we took for granted. PLease feel free to ask any question....it helps me think.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning