So, do I not let him stay at home? I am not sure where he would go. Can he be here and me just stay lovingly distant? He's back because the few times I've seen him in the last 2 months I have been strong and loving and self confident... I know I can't keep that up 24/7. I've told him that.

He is so positive he is "cured," "has woken up," "has seen the light."... He says his knots are gone, he's happy but he also knows he has a lot of work to do. He made an appointment for counseling for himself and another one for us as a couple. He has reached out to friends that he was afraid to face before...

It feels real, but I am scared and I know I should be. I know this is uncertain territory. I just don't know exactly how to react to it. Any specific advice would be appreciated.


Me 43
H 43
S13, S16
M - 21 yrs
5/05 Bomb1 EA
3/08 EA/MLC bomb2 & left home
5/08 back together and piecing