"I understand what you are saying here completely. Only reason I ask about whether this is the right thing is because we had talked about this days before. Although we did not plan a specific time, or place, we agreed that we would do something together. Am I still wrong for going?"

Hi,

It's kind of feeling like you feel like you need to be committed to the plans because it was agreed that it would be tentative on her side.

But is that healthy for you to stay committed on your end definitely for plans that she may or may not say yes to? It leaves you waiting around for her sign.

I tried to send a private message to Tia to see if she can stop by but apparently only administrators can send PMs?

But I did send her a post on a different thread she started. Perhaps you can try. I believe there are a few moderators...

Tink


Change the policy; allow PM's.