Seems that you had a good day. It must have been nice to spend the day like old times. Maybe just maybe you might have chosen to go home though. I think next time you could ask her for a massage and see where that goes.
I don't think that little convo qualifies as R talk. You validated her and that's always a good thing.
I like your note to self! Can I borrow it?
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
