One love/One life/When it's one need/In the night

[AliSuddenly]

Sounds to me, rightly or wrongly that he believes he ISNT scarred by the whole deployment thing. Is he being defensive to you or trying to tell you he thinks you should stop thinking he is scarred, or is he in denial??

(9:00:04 PM) H: some can walk away
(9:00:11 PM) H: some are scarred
(9:00:27 PM) H: some need more excitement in life
(9:10:02 PM) H: you dont get scarred unless you happen to be particularly weak, most of us just grow the [censored] up

...so which is he then? Just a grown up now? Or one of the ones needing excitement? I'd say, looking at his recent behaviour, hes most definetly NOT a grownup! Hes not behaving very adultly, he's just burying his head in the sand.

I guess you could have asked him, which are you then? Or do you want to talk about this some more ? Or something? Seems like he was opening up to you here a bit.. ?

Hope you are ok today,
Ali xxx