I feel the closer we feel that our spouses are getting better the more we want this crap to be over, and we start to push. The fact is is that they are still working things out and we need to be more patient and work on us even more. I think this is the most critical part of them coming throguh this. I have read the six stages of MLC again as a reminder of this. Talking to Jodi has helped also.
I do expect that there will still be bumps in the road and who knows what will happen yet but, I can say that I have tried everything and leave a better person (but, don't think i'll need to leave the M).
I guess Im'e saying try to be more patient my friend and you will reap what you deserve. I feel you are in a very hopeful place right now and with the right fine tuning it could be wonderful. I think retro is going to be your guide.
I know you were getting a lot of crap from the other borad but we love your horoscopes here. Would I be able to get Aries, Sag, and Cap, that cusp thing ya know.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
