The IC's both posted on here and I have seen others do it too - some on the MLC boards and more on the SSM boards.
On the other 'group' I belong to there are a few H and W posters and I have to say it seems to work really well. There have been some real ups and downs but other posters are even handed and don't tend to 'side' with the person they have already established a R with online whilst going through all the drama. It may be a good thing for him to post - it might really help.
He sounds ready to work at things and personally I think that is the single most important thing. Therapy never did me any good until I realised I really needed it to become healthy again and I had to be truthful with the therapist however much it hurt. I am sure you have been through the range of emotions so I don't really need to say this, but I found it SO hard to tell therapist things about myself and my feelings and my thought processes. I felt shame and pettiness etc.
You know how to contact me by other means if you want to- it's always lovely to hear from you.
I have found piecing as you know a real roller caster - even though my H has been 100% committed, (thank goodness).
I feel like your good times as a family are beginning - you always make me feel so warm and fuzzy inside and your love for your family shines through. Even the love for your H has shone through with all that has happened; if I were him I know it would make me love you more....not less...reading all your posts.
Sally, you truly ARE a wonderful person, (as are many on here I can think of are), but you are getting the future you deserve hopefully.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
