I have read threads where people have discussed the pros and cons of this - start your own....I am sure you will get some strong replies.
I too am biased towards exposure. The only thing is it can be extremely explosive and there is very little control in it. However - I refused to be a doormat and thought the sooner the truth was out the better. Worked out ok for me - look at my signature. However it does backfire for some.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
