thank you sara. He has a lot to deal with right now, and hopefully things will continue on the current course.
SD, I think what probably helped is that he also took his time to process thru it all w/o talking to me. not sure what his initial reaction was when he first found the stuff. but yeah, its a pretty vulnerable place to be for me. at the same time, so far its been all good, at least that part. its opened the door for a lot of communication, and like I said above, its also allowed me to look back and see his responses to the stuff he read. that is what says a lot to me right now.
there are lots of ups and downs right now...just lots of stuff to work thru. but we are trying and I think that is a good thing...hope it is. wish I had that crystal ball though.
I was laughing at h, btw, a few times, saying I was surprised he didn't sign on at some point and post a rebutle. after all, as much as I think I try to post an even handed example of what is going on, its still all my viewpoint.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
