Late in the Game-thread 6, maybe last in separated

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As far as I know, there's no OW. There was an EA last year but that ended in the fall after I found out about it. I know, I know, it may not have ended. But after sharing two homes with him for four months (Jan-May) I'm sure he wasn't having a PA with anyone and nothing points to an EA. End of summer last year, beginning of fall last year, yep. I really do believe him when he says there's nobody else. Honestly, I wish there was so I could blame this on them!

He just "doesn't want to be back in this relationship." That's what it boils down to. I can understand that he was really unhappy and that he wants something different. I validated him when he said that on Sunday and commented that that relationship was over, that I didn't want that either. I told him that I, too, had doubts as to whether or not we could get through this, that I wondered if too much had happened for us to overcome but that I believed that getting through this would just make us get to a much better place. This is where we have a fundamental difference in opinion. IMO, he doesn't believe this can happen. I don't think it's just us, but he just doesn't see this as an option. Of course, I do. I really think this is where everything hinges for us.