I'll run it by the DB coach tomorrow but tink, you are most likely very right about doing nothing. I'm so fed up with being rejected even when my attempts to contact him are with good reason. The hardest part for me will be getting over the fear that by my not calling first or telling him in some way that I can't make it; that it will not lay a good foundation for him to see me in a positive light...but I guess if he saw me that way now he'd respond. He did call me though a few nights ago to tell me coming to see him June 2nd was fine and that he was "off work". Not sure if I mentioned that. Even so, still do nothing? Just making sure.