Addie, I feel a little evil wishing anyone be lonely. But it's something that's necessary for him in our R I think.
I thought he was all set to move out 2 weeks ago. I'm not sure what happened exactly. I think the friend couldn't and H's finances would be stretched if he did. He really can't afford it.
H was here to help me with some pictures and he stayed for lunch (I invited him). No R talk!
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
When I asked him to stay for lunch he said "I wasn't planning to." But he did and was here for about 2.5 hours. While here he used his phone a lot so I said "popular guy today." He got a bit miffed and said "not popular! busy" And then "that's why I don't like coming here" I bit my tongue because that could have developed into a bitch fest.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I think I did pretty good with the NRT, though you will have to check out my thread to see if I am booted from the NRT support group (at least I didn't initiate).
Sounds like you did pretty well. Good job on avoiding the fight over the phone use as well. I have had to bite my tongue a few times that I normally wouldn't. I usually follow it up with something like "its all good" meaning life is good this is no big deal if we start to lash tongues.
I think making these last few days very pleasant is a good approach....show him what he will be missing before he misses it.
PS: You are not evil to want him to miss you.....you are worth missing
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
Okay Jen. I would like to join your challenge. So from this point forward for the next 4 days (and then likely an additional 8 days while you're gone) I am NOT to initiate any relationship talk!
Maybe it will be easier now that we're making it a group challenge?
