Loving actions create loving feelings. Think of it this way, if you were doing needlework. When you first start it is something to do just kind of there, but the more time and attention you put into the more you begin to love the peice. So it is with your spouse. Start with small gestures and as you do this more and more the jestures will become bigger and less forced.
You are such a wonderful person and I have complete faith in you. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory