L2,
Enjoy your S's graduation and the trip to Ireland. Put all of the negative thoughts away and enjoy this time for what it is, a huge milestone in your and your S's life. Whatever comes next will come, the only way to influence it is by your actions in the present...and it isn't usually very clear how. So...carpe diem!

SD.

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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