They really should make it a law that you are required to go through counseling for a good six months before you can even get divorced. They should also ask the C if they believe a true effort was made. Make the jerk jump through hoops! kat
I TOTALLY agree....it should be a LOT harder than what it is these days. It should also be a law that if the spouse has OP, they lose all rights to any money they might have gotten otherwise.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08