Well, we've all done it. I don't even think that what you did was that bad Michelle, I just don't want you to let her get to you to the point that you are doing things in order to get a reaction out of her or your H.
The thing is the first thing they do is run and tell our H's and they get mad at us. I sent OW a text before H moved out and he was FURIOUS with me....but yet if I was mad at him for having an A then I am the irrational one.
You can't talk any sense into either one of them right now.
