DEPRESSION/WITHDRAWAL STAGE

[cagzmom]

I too understand and hear you. There is mixed blessing with them going off with Daddy - and trusting you know the drill. The truth is the kids want to see daddy not bimbo...adn that is where I need adn try to leave it.

Glam- your intentions are so right on and yes there is compassion and sincerity of heart--but there are many sides to the coin. Calling a spade a spade but not to his face--- that is what i hear from trusting. AND I WOUDL VENTURE TO BET that IF he called her and aid "can we talk.." her sincere sweet spirit would come out..

You can't help someone who doesn't want help.
You can't fix somehting when soemone doesn't see it is broken.

Co-dependent no more.
Love must be Tough
When he leaves

HEALING ourselves, being true to ourselves....that is what we need. They DONT WANT help yet. NOTE I SAID YET --- if and when they do...I know trusting she will be there.