Hi Jeff, I am glad that you were still able to go to the pool. There would have been no way anyone could have been at a pool in this area yesterday. It just poured and poured. I can't believe how much it has been raining. Floods are bound to happen again. One of my neighbor's flag pole got hit by lightning yesterday. Pretty scary stuff!
Hang in there this week...you'll make it. Enjoy redecorating your home. I have been thinking about that a little myself. I think I might paint the bedroom and get a smaller bed. The queen sized bed in there is really large and makes the room crowded. Although when 2 people were sleeping in that room, we needed a larger bed than what I as a single person will need.
I am still with you on the being nice to your spouse business. I have been trying to be loving and kind to my H as much as possible. Even though he has been so unloving and rude to me, I want to show the love of Christ at all times.
I have really, really been enjoying church more so than I have in years. Yesterday the guest pastor said a prayer and in that prayer he said, "God please heal those who are in our congregation who are physically sick and also be with those who are here hurting from a broken marriage." I have no idea where that came from! But it totally touched me in so many ways. Oh...I have been asked to lead the singing on June 22nd at the church. I am really excited about doing that. I used to do that at my old church (the one where H and met) but H and I switched churches a while back and I haven't been as involved. It is funny that H made that decision as the spiritual head of our house, and yet I am still going. Actually H says he is going ot church with the OW on Sunday mornings....can you believe that! Going to church with the woman you are having an affair with? What would the congregation say if they knew THAT was what was going on?
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08