I still say they should make a federal holiday out of kicking the OW or OM's butt. I suppose that is counterproductive too, though, and in the long run is only temporary.

Kris is right...the best thing you can do is remember what is done is done, and continue to live your life. I sent the OW a message when I first found out begging her not to take my husband. I felt like a fool later.

Another old cliche: living well is the best revenge...

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..