Thanks guys. I'm keeping that in mind while I see if we progress. If we start to put our marriage together, one thing I will insist on is that we relocate for work if OM ever comes back here.

Just got back from the cookout/grad party and WW didn't go anywhere today. And OM didn't visit I'm sure. She didn't shower today, looks like crap and is really sunburned from her laying out yesterday, so one more test passed. Now I trust her .002%. Only 99.998% more to go. Maybe by spring 2019 I'll trust her

I think maybe her making up the shopping excuse for today might be because she didn't want to face the couple family/friends that know of the situation and she's just not ready to do that yet. Maybe not, but she seemed interested in how everyone was doing etc when we got back.

Gotta go, talk to you later.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.