Made the mistake of calling wife to talk about us. Told her I loved her and wanted us to work it out. Asked her to stop seeing OM. She said she gets mad when I call and talk about us and she said she is not going to stop seeing OM. She said he is very nice,treats her well, and deserves a chance. Asked her to go on date with no talk of the marriage. She said she would think about it, but didn't seem very interested. Saw her while visiting the kids. We were at our sons baseball. Tried to be upbeat. Didn't say anything about the marriage. She didn't seem to want to talk much. We just said a few words about the kids,then I had to leave to go to work. Wish it had gone better. Haven't seen any signs of improvement. Now that she is dating someone else im afraid that she will have no interest in getting back together. Ill keep on trying the DBing. Hopefully Im wrong and things will improve.