Glam,

You have a good point. What is put in the mind can come out as actions.

I call him a dumb ass because he is behaving like a dumb ass.

I still stand and love him, but when something is the color red you call it red.

I understand what you are saying, however I use this board as a release of my feelings, and that is what I think he is right now.

I do respect your point though and understand where you are coming from

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11