I understand why you did it. As you know I have been tempted to contact OW too. Especially when she told H she wanted to make a trip here because she was "worried we would get back together."
What's done is done. I just don't want you to let her have any power over you.
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Think of this too, it's got to be burning her A$% that your H hasn't filed for divorce...a little poetic justice.