Grace, I love the perspective you have on the 180s. The bomb can be a wake-up-call - what would you like to change about YOU? More patience. Less laziness. More fun. Less procrastination. Whatever it is.
LMG, you asked me earlier - would I really prefer to be in limbo-land? YES. Certainly, as opposed to the open hostility I currently face. On the other hand, everything happens for a reason, eh? I like the way Grace said it - I am moving into a new life. It isn't easy and it isn't the life I ultimately want. It's just the one I have right now. All I can do is Make the best of it. One day at a time.
LMG, I am soooo encouraged by his compliment to you in front of the other people. That is hopeful. That is a really nice step. Really nice.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....