I do think that being vague about our GALing does help in that aspect. the only thing we have to be careful is being secretive., During the sitch, my H was so mad at me for not telling him stuff and I guess I was making it seem more like I was dating secretly and he was so mad about it. so funny. I'm thinking, okay, so YOU can go have an A but I can't??? I remember saying, "well, I'm tired of being the only one without secrets" or something like that. He even thought I was dating a guy from church!!! I'm thinking, wow, you really don't know me. WEll, except he was right in the fact that I screwed around way back in the day, but He didn't even know that at the time.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
