The anxiety is hard. I still have it too, but less intense than in the beginning. Maybe you shld think abt some shorter term goals and actions. You may not have to go dark, but step back. If he is seeing you b/c you insist, then maybe you need a new strategy. One of the themes of DB is to b/c a person that your WAS needs to seek out, not feel obligated to.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now
