I held off on our divorce for almost 2 years...actually I just now got to the court to set it aside...but after nearly 2 years apart and another year of piecing I am happy to say I busted our divorce... It was hard...but like your H, mine is a great procrastinator...we had a long history together also so I understand...if you still have feelings for each other it can be rekindled...but really time is on your side...unless you just can't wait to move on with someone else in your life then it is worth doing nothing for now...go about your life...don't insist on him seeing you...I let go and sometimes H would go months with no contact...so don't worry that he is slipping away...keeping contact won't change that either way...if he is going to go he will... Take care...Lin
