I have been told that sometimes its better to let them miss you a bit. My H has not spoken to me for a week now, and during that week I ran into him at a restaurant he had no business being at and my BF ran into him at the airport. All I can say is God works in mysterious ways. No contact is very hard, be forewarned. It is a constant battle of trying to occupy your mind somewhere else when you feel like you just need to talk. I don't know that going dark is the answer, but sometimes that little bit of time helps put things into perspective. They can't see the changes if they speak to you every day. Give them a little time, and they will be stunned.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
