Hi T, No need to apologise! You've given more than enough of yourself on these boards, I dont think you have anything to say sorry for. I guess he isnt NOT replying on purpose (as you were), as he is not DBing you, as you were. So he is probably just busy. I agree that it is disappointing though. Maybe hes thinking a bit about his reply, seeing as you said you were coming to town, but theres no way of knowing.
I agree, a pressie is too much, wait and see if he emails back, but maybe an email on his birthday would do. As much contact as me and my BF were having, he still didnt get me a card for my birthday (and thats totally unlike him) and if you email or text, you dont have the stress of trying to choose the perfect card at least!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread