Jeff, I'm sorry for what you are going through...your situation is different but so much the same. I think you know what you need to do. Everything will work out the way it is supposed to happen. That means that we just place our trust in the Lord. I think you are doing the right thing with the exception of helping her. I just still feel that actually helping her leave will make her feel it is the right thing to do in her twisted head. You don't have to make her hurt, but make her realize the difficulty of it. Just because she has to rely on others for this move doesn't mean she will turn to them. Turning to them may help her realize how wierd this whole situation really is. In any case, I'm in your court. Keep fighting the good fight for you and your family.
