Kiki, your brother is wonderful...he loves you, he loves his niece...he understands that your H is lost. Instead of lashing out at him he is saying to ignore it...wise choice.

And who cares what your brother does for a living? geez, I wish my brother was a hairdresser...then I could get my products at his professional discount! LOL! jk!

Good for you for weeding out the negative people. You know what they say: You can't soar with the eagles if you hang out with turkeys! LOL!

You are doing so well, mama...you are becoming a woman of strength.

Love,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller