Trusting I have a hard time understanding you. You say you are standing for your M, but then you refer to your h as dumbass. Is this because you are still hurt?

What you put in your mind is what you will believe. Remember this starts with you showing compassion and love.

Your h is jealous because he still cares. Start by building your h up in your mind, so you have a new opionion of him.

I am sure your h is confused and depressed. How do you think you should you help him through this and what would he like for your support?

Just some observations! I know we have very emotional reactions, but it starts with letting the pain go!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"