W is now out

[upside_downer]

Hi,

OK thanks I have a better picture now...

Why did you send him a text and email? I guess you were friendly and close enough with him to have his cell and email address?

Absolutely. We had become pretty good friends. The 4 of us hung out a lot.

I sent him the text because I was sitting at home, bothered by the fact that my W was out with him, and I was not invited. That plugs directly into how I hate not being included (something I described a little in a previous post about being a control person). I just couldn't understand (and still kind of don't) why my W would explain to me that this is "just us getting together casually after work for a couple of drinks/food" and yet I wasn't invited (even though it was just a casual thing). Am I crazy for feeling left out (even though this has how they have been even before I entered the picture?)