I would make sure I was truly over my H and divorced before I started dating...I toyed with this and it wasn't good because while I thought it would be easier to move on with my life if I was seeing someone, it really wasn't and I ended up with hurt feelings...my own and the other person... It was much later that my H and I did reconcile...and at that time I was still realized that I was not totally over him and had not involved myself with anyone else...but I did GAL... The point is that there is a LS for a reason...and then there is D for a reason...D is when you are OVER and ready for another relationship...until then it is best emotionally not involve others in your relationship because as long as your married that is what you would be doing... Of course this is my opinion...but if marriage is sacred to you and you believe in your vows...until that marriage is NO MORE...you are in it
