Hi, just wanted to post before doing anything else (good advice). H knows I'll be in town June 2nd to see my dogs (he's caring for one of them that normally lives with me while I'm at my Moms); and also to get my mail. I just wondered in light of recent events, should I just make up an excuse not to go? H hasn't responded to my call about "what time" would be best for me to come by; nor has he replied to my email that suggested we make things a "clean slate" between us. I feel humiliated and rejected to put it lightly and I'm wondering if maybe he's seeing someone or if he is just flat out ignoring me so I'll leave him alone. Whatever his reasons for going dark on me, how should I handle my visit? I will only be in town for just long enough to get some Drs. appts. out of the way and then I have to fly back to my Moms. I'll also be borrowing a car from a friend who may need it back sooner than I anticipated so should I even bother carving out time to drop by and see my dogs and get my mail? This would be a prime opportunity to see the H and see how things go but I'm so nervous about recent events I feel like hiding. I almost don't trust myself not to do or say something that will just confirm his own feelings of "aren't you pitiful..". What do you guys think? Cancel, go anyway, or not go and don't even say why....?
