((((Michelle)))) IMHO I think sending that IM was a little of taking back your life. Although I agree that contacting the OW is counterproductive in most cases, sometimes sending a little reminder of the WS is not a bad thing, but I wouldn't recommend it all the time obviously. I think OW's and OM's need to be reminded, sometimes, that there are S's involved here, S's that did not do anything to deserve the betrayal that they have endured. I wouldn't recommend doing it again, but a little reminder isn't necessarily a bad thing.
Think of this too, it's got to be burning her A$% that your H hasn't filed for divorce...a little poetic justice.
Have a great day!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
