Lost... will pass on the drink, thanks! Once I start I do not tend to stop.
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Seeing them all together in church on sundays still finds a way to bite at me
Ya, ditto. My sitch has been over for a number of years and seeing "them" together still bites me too. Yesterday I was dropping my kids off to "their" house. My XW and OM were in front yard. It was so freakin' wierd dropping of my own kids to my XW and OM.... who I have a lot of unresolved issues with. This guy was formerly my neighbour.
I cant see at this stage how if ever it will seem normal or even comfortable. Mine too is involved in Church.... A "ministry" in fact. They participate in it together. It is not mine to look down on the conduct of another. I have been guilty of many sins that God has forgiven me of. I still cant get my head around it though. A person leaves their spouse and hooks up with someone else in highly controversial circumstances and they continue to attend church as if they haven't missed a beat. I try not to judge it. It does hurt and I just dont get it. Will let God deal with that one.... I will just do my best to keep my heart in the right place and seek God on how to deal with my part.
Glad to hear you are doing well. Regardless to what is happening with your roofing guy.... I am sure it is enjoyable to simply receive the affirmation and attention. That is ok. Drink it up. It is part of our nature. Good on ya.
