It's so often hard to know what to do - for me, I tend to worry that one wrong move will decide the whole outcome. But, I'm coming to see that it's not that way. It's a series of moves and interpretations that create the story between you. Is there an external reason why you need to D, as opposed to just letting things play out a while longer? 1 yr out of 28 - if there is a strong bond and he is saying he doesn't want D, then what's wrong w/ waiting? These situations take a long time to develop, they also take a long time to change. I'm focused on how long you've been M - if you read more on this site, you will see th 1 yr is not a long time. Have you read DR?
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now
